Desteni Radio - Hot Seat with Joe

In this edition of Desteni Radio, visitors to the Desteni Farm get to ask Joe personal questions about some of his personal stories and experiences here on the farm, working with Desteni, and his process of discovering a moment of real change.

For more details of Joe's experience with discovering physical emotions and working with them, check out the following interviews on EQAFE.com where he shares his process -

Quantum Systemization - Physical Emotions - "That Isn't Really Me"
Introducing the concept of "physical emotions" within the body and why it is important to stop pushing away the things we don't like about ourselves and start embracing them instead.

 Quantum Systemization - Practical Tools for Ending the Separation with Self
Introducing the practical step by step process Joe used to work with the concept of physical emotions and how he found a way to connect with himself in a way that he never did before, and how this allowed him to make breakthroughs in his personal process through depression and pain.

The Moment of Change - Back to Basics Part 1
Joe shares his moment of real change, following the process he had been walking with physical emotions and self embracing

The Moment of Change - Back to Basics Part 2
Further explaining why the real moments of change in our lives are not like the way we imagine them to be - a continuation from the previous recording on Joe's real moment of change.


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Desteni Radio # 21 - Wanting Others to See What I Don't See in Me

In this episode, Joe shares a personal experience of how he walks through guilt and shame and why we sometimes want others to see in us the things we don't see in ourselves. How do we stop trying to impress others upon others and instead start changing for real?


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Desteni Radio #15 - Review of "Nowhere to Run, Nowhere to Hide"

Cerise and Joe talk about a recent interview from the Reptilians series called "Nowhere to Run, Nowhere to Hide".

We all have things that we are ashamed of and don't want to face. We push these things down and suppress them and refuse to even acknowledge them within us. But are we approaching the end of being able to hide the truth of ourselves from each other, and by extension from ourselves?

Why are we slowly but surely becoming the monsters that we try to hide inside ourselves and what can we do about it as the inner reality within us eventually comes forward into the light of external reality?

Get the full Reptilians interview HERE




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Desteni Radio #11 - Why Stop the Mind?

In this episode of Desteni Radio Cerise and Joe have a look at the question of why we suggest stopping the mind and what that actually entails. A good introduction to what process is about and a good refresher for those already on the path.

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Ready to start your process of stopping the mind? A great place to start is the Back to Basics series on EQAFE which walks you through a step by step total beginner's plan toward your Journey to Life.

For a deeper perspective on what it means to stop your thoughts hear it from Anu himself - in this interview "Stop Your Thoughts, Change Yourself"




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Desteni Radio # 10 - Joe Goes Mad Part 2: There is no Quick Fix

Here in the second part of "Joe Goes Mad", Cerise and Joe discuss in a raw, unscripted, uncensored style the why there are no shortcuts or quick fixes that can solve all of our problems in a real and lasting way, and what the power of self-forgiveness implies.

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Desteni Radio # 9 - CHRISTMAS EVE SPECIAL! "A Destonian Night Before Christmas"

Here is a little treat from Joe this Christmas Eve - Enjoy!




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A Destonian Night Before Christmas – An Adaptation by Joe Kou

‘Twas the night before Christmas, when the holiday stress

Left no room for unwinding, not even a rest.

Overtime, shopping, and crippling debt;

All make this season the most difficult yet.

The children were nestled all snug in their beds

While thoughts of anxiety and fear danced in our heads.

While momma with Prozac and I with a night cap,

Had just settled our bodies for a long overdue nap,

When all of a sudden I awoke with a terror;

I sprang from the bed to find the source of the error.

Away to my wallet I flew like a flash,

Rifling through credit cards and handful of cash.

I sat in the light of a computer screen’s glow

And saw that my bank account had fallen too low.

When what to my fearful eyes did appear,

But a notification that overdue payments are here.

Bold red letters read “Third and Final Notice”

On several the letters that the bank had wrote us.

More rapid than spam these notices came,

And I sank into depression as I read each by name:

“Now, Water! Now, Power! Now Medical Aid!

On, Insurance! On Mortgage! These bills must be paid!”

To the top of the pile! To the top of the drawer!

I’ve paid this, I’ve paid, that, but still I am poorer!

And then, for a moment, I stopped and I breathed.

And gave to myself some much needed release.

As I silenced the thoughts that were spinning around,

I forgave myself in writing, and later in Sound.

And then became clear what once was quite hazy;

I was blaming myself for a world gone quite crazy.

I breathed in to myself, and brought it all back.

To a point where I stand without fear, without lack.

My fears – were not real! These thoughts, how silly!

If we don’t stop it now, well then when will we?

As I asked the question, the answer was clear: 

We can only change the present when we are all HERE.

When we stop ourselves there is no need to remind;

That myself, and everyone, are of a single mankind.

We’re all in this together, from bottom to top.

And all we must do is be willing to stop.

Stop hating the world for who we’ve become.

Stop forgetting that all are Equal and One.

Stop judging! Stop blaming! Stop living in fear!

Stop separating ourselves from what was always right here!

Then no longer will money or stress rule the day

Or occupy our minds and get in the way –

From living a life that is both free and clear

Where all Life is Equal, and Oneness is Here.

So live by the Principles that honor all Life

Oneness and Equality for all, and for all a good night!

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Desteni Radio # 8 Joe Goes Mad Part 1

In this special edition of Desteni Radio, Cerise asks questions while Joe shares an impassioned, unscripted, and uncensored look into the deeper dimensions of who he is as a Destonian and why Self-Forgiveness is a key that cannot be overlooked.


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Desteni Radio # 7 - All the Small, Petty Things

Why do we sometimes judge the points we face and struggle with as being "petty" or not worth our time and attention, and how does that contribute to us staying locked in the pattern and unable to change it?

In this episode of Desteni Radio, Cerise and Joe discuss a subject from the Desteni Forum. You can check out the forum topic HERE

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BONUS EPISODE! Introducing "Cerise and Joe" - A Brand New Segment on Desteni Radio!

 
A sneak peak at a brand new segment on Desteni Radio for you all today. Introducing "Cerise and Joe" where we take on a single topic and talk about all of the various dimensions we see in it within our personal perspectives as Destonians. Tune in and have a listen to our first episode!



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